J-Lo & Ben: Major Stress-Fest!

 Recently J-Lo and Ben Affleck held another ceremony (publicity event)  in Georgia officiated by Jay Shetty, in addition to the attendance of several Hollywood stars.

Photo: Ben Affleck following his three-day wedding celebration with Jennifer Lopez / BACKGRID

Here's the wild behind the scenes details we got from a guest! 

Last time (Bennifer 1.0)  these two almost got to the altar (for real) things exploded when JLo found out Ben hooked up at his bachelor party. Broken hearted by Ben she called it off a day before. Then and now, JLo has zero tolerance for his boozing and partying ways. They both have agreed to this 'big-biz coupling' but this time JLO wasn't going to let Ben have any fun. During the 3 day affair designed to thoroughly wear him down and make partying almost impossible for him, he was given little room to breathe. What's more, Jlo tasked Ben's Mother  with the unfortunate job of monitoring his actions at all times. This led to major tension and a big blowup with Ben who wanted to enjoy himself rather than play nice for the cameras. It all culminated in an explosive argument whereby Affleck's mother had  severe anxiety attack and had to be rushed to hospital. He agreed to put the work in til the final hours where he loosened up big time. 

J Lo knows Ben will use most any excuse in the world to celebrate. 

Sources say she was a major "bride-zilla" at the event and has been the one working with their PR firms and photo agencies to set up professional photographs, broker fashion deals with stylists and mags who report on her style, promotion, magazine exposure and BACKGRID pap shots. Jennifer being so controlling over this arrangement has caused Ben to feel trapped and upset about what he's gotten himself into. You will see a ton of coverage on what she wore, what was served, all the details, and new publicity pushes. Over saturation on social media is indicative of her PR firm using the classic tactic of employing several people who have upward of 5o social media accounts to mass-post positive publicity pieces. 

Jennifer does not want the above BACKGRID photo circulating, they tried to oversaturate with other more flattering photos. 

Truth is Ben Affleck despises intrusion into his life. He tries at all costs to protect his kids and self from prying paps and the reality of this is becoming so difficult for him. He jet out of there the moment he could joining Matt Damon on a trip OUT. "F This" he reportedly said  at one point during the day.

What's more, during the event, guests said he was "fatigued" by the pressure of this charade and was keen to BOLT as soon as possible from under JLos watchful thumb. She cannot stand his drinking, gambling and cavorting and he can't stand the confinement!